Comments on: A Transgender Story Chapter 1

By: Ms Chor Lor

Ms Chor Lor — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 14:10:14 +0000

Thanks for all the encouragement! Ya, these are mostly my past, I guess I’m feeling more at peace now at present day. But had come a long way and there’s more stories of my past to come.Do continue supporting me and tune back to read more of Ms Chor Lor’s Journey…….

By: m

Tue, 03 Mar 2009 14:01:36 +0000

i started reading your blog not so long ago. your background story is the only article which i felt a lot of unhappiness in it. hope things will eventually get better for you. stay positive

By: s.

s. — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 11:27:17 +0000

Thanks for sharing. It is a priviledge to be male. I would have preferred to be one myself, but God had other ideas.

The male siblings don’t seem to understand the priviledge they have been given.

I detached myself from such male-bias family nonsense a long time ago, because like you, I am not the surname bearer and hence, no status in a Chinese family.

Here’s to working hard & building our own futures.

xoxo

By: Stefani

Stefani — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 07:06:59 +0000

Forgot to tell you that I grew up in a Pre-war house in Chinatown. There were 4 families,each occupying one small room. There were 7 of us and my parents. My parents earned about $2.50 a day, which is about $300 a month in present(2009) value. I had to go round to my relatives to borrow money at the end of every month. So don’t give up hope on the future.

By: Stefani

Stefani — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 06:55:13 +0000

You are a great fighter, fight for yourself. I hope you will find peace in future. You will get your own flat, I know.

By: Benem

Benem — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 03:42:09 +0000

My Girlfriend is a chinese rooted Transgender too and the Story with the “useless” brother and the fightings with Mom is similar for her, but her Brother is the father of three kids allready, that he cant take care of.
I allways hope she will find peace with him one day, that will be better for her.

Thank you for the very honest writing!

Ben