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Malaysian Trans married in UK !
By Ms Chor Lor | December 4, 2009 | 383 views
This is such a touching and loving real story and yet a sad and worrying one.
A Malaysian pre op transgender by the name of Fatine, blissfully got married to the man she love in the UK in a civil partnership.
They first got to know each other 3 years ago at a Starbucks cafe at Petronas Tower KL. Ian, not yet her husband then, walked over to ask to share a table with her. Ian was captivated by her features and expression. They soon chatted.
When she was about to leave, Ian asked for her number, but she told him she won’t be someone he wish to get close with as she is a trans. Though Ian was stunned for a moment, but his feelings for her win everything.
Ian was working in KL at that time, so they kept in contact all these while. They realise they have feelings for each other. Their first kiss was at a bar two days later when they first met. And they knew that this is what they want.
Fatine is a trans who never intends to go for the sex change because of the risks. She is also worried about this relationship in a country where homosexual is illegal…………She was disown by her mum and had been an independent woman since.
However, Ian does not mind anything about her at all. And all he sees in her is a woman, though he ever asked himself if he was gay.
Sadly five months later after they knew, his contract was over and he has to return to the UK. He then find a job to come work there to be with her again. The best thing was, he told his mum about Fatine and she was supportive.
One year later, Fatine return to the UK with Ian on a visitor visa. One month later, they got married in a civil partnership. All of Ian’s friends were quite shock at first when they knew that Fatine is a trans. But they were all supportive. And this was the first time Fatine was surrounded by people who can accept her, which will never happen back in her country.
However, happiness do not last……….
Fatine’s visa came up with some passport issues when she reapply for it. So she had to return to Malaysia. They can’t bear to part with each other. They cannot live together and be in a open relationship back there as it will face imprisonment.
They are also worried about whether she is able to apply for another visa to travel to UK again.
Arghhhh!!! I WANT TO GO PETRONAS STARBUCKS LIAO !!!!!!
Hopefully she can get to go UK again and be with her husband. And hopefully, she will get a PR soon one day and stay there happily with Ian.
Read source and see her photo here.
Topics: Transgender | 2 Comments »
December 4th, 2009 at 12:45 am
This is my first time commenting here. Hope you’re doing good.
True love is blind to everything else.. As long as they’re happy. Plus, this is their lives, so what right does anybody else has? If any of them feels guilty, then that’s between them and God. We should not judge because we’re not saints ourselves..
P/S: Go to coffee houses where lotsa foreign men hang out. (not pubs or clubs tho). Maybe you’ll get lucky too..
December 4th, 2009 at 12:54 am
ya
lets just hope she will not get into trouble by the M laws.
hope she will find happiness