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A story of 2 men, 2 women and 2 gay
By Ms Chor Lor | January 3, 2010 | 610 views
Was chatting with a gay friend yesterday when I heard the story from him. Two different gay friends, one of which we both knew, while the other I do not know him, but is staying above my this gay friend.
They both are dating a married man. One has been more than 2 years. While the other maybe almost a year.
And both men divorced their wife to be with their present BF. I think one of the men had children too. I wonder who the children follows………..I believe should be the mum bah.
The one who stayed above my friend, had even moved in and stay together for 2 years. While the other will be staying together soon.
I admit that I am slight shock when I heard the story. I heard of men who divorce for another woman, or for another trans. But this may be the first time I heard of a man who divorce for another man.
Most may see this as an immoral thing, but I find it romantic. That the man actually bravely goes for what they want.They most probably had to go through many obstacles and condemns by parents and relatives. It is a brave decision for the two men.
These two men could possibly have been bisexuals who loved women and men. But they find that they loved their men more than their wives.
Or their relationships with their wives could also have sour through the years thus with such an ending.
Or they both possibly have actually been gay, but got married because of parents and tradition, and that they finally want to break free now.
But I guess the wives are the most sad here. A woman can probably accept their husband leaving for another woman, but for another man…………who can accept that……….
I’m sure that there are many reasons as to why, how and when that we can never know.
Whichever it is, it is their decision. And I sincerely wished them to be happy together.
p/s : I will be so happy if a man really divorce his wife for me hehe. But it depends on how deep your love is bah.
Topics: Gays | 5 Comments »
January 3rd, 2010 at 7:14 pm
well well well
you got a point here,
they sounds romantic
to hide the feelings from their wives, their parents which is something not easy to do it.
but, it really hurts the wife a lot
it is just like.living together so such a long period of time, with children, yet, the man is not actually loving her.
That’s sad…..
January 3rd, 2010 at 7:22 pm
that sometimes is the harsh reality of society norms and traditions.
that gays and even yet to be trans, have to hide their identity, yet following their parents wishes and society norms and expectations, they get married and have children.
ending up losing their own freedom and happiness, only to suppress them deep inside for years or forever.
some manage to break loose, while some succumb their lives to depression forever.
January 3rd, 2010 at 9:36 pm
hey chorlor. I thought this post is very sensitive of you to think of the woman involved. I remember watching Brokeback mountain at Fridae’s gala opening. Obviously 99% of the theatre are gay. When the story came to the part where both of them finally found each other and kissed passionately and the wife saw. The theatre laughed loudly!!!! WHAT IS THE HELL SO FUNNY ABOUT THAT?????? There is a woman in pain just cause you cannot be true or be brave enough. I find the reaction disgusting. We’re all human beings, gay or not.
January 3rd, 2010 at 10:05 pm
probably because we are women and we will understand how the wife will feel
while the gays can never understand the amount of hurt of the wife cause they are not women.
January 3rd, 2010 at 10:13 pm
actually i also haven watch brokeback mountain lolx
i see cowboy cowboy alrady sian
nice show ar?